I moved to Minnesota almost 7 years ago. There are several things I had to learn with that move. First of all, Minnesota is wrong. The game is Duck Duck Goose. What the heck is a Duck Duck Gray Duck? Who cares what color the duck is, it is a freaking goose! I will show leniency in the hot dish vs casserole debate. Because a casserole done right is a hot dish. But I will never cave on the Gray Duck. Never. It is the principal of the whole thing.
The thing that was hardest to learn (besides how to deal with the extreme cold) was that community doesn’t just happen. Maybe I was spoiled in college, but I left behind a crazy great community that was intentional about getting people together. I tried to rebel against it while there, and now I would give anything to have that back. I am now in a place that I have lived in for a few years. A place that I love, with a great ready-made community at the church that employs me. But a community outside of the people who have to like me? A community that has known me for years and wants to challenge me and care about me and is willing to call me on stuff? A community of people who are at a similar life stage and facing some of the same struggles I am? That is still formulating.
I just read an article from Relevant Magazine about community in which the writer said that the church is not responsible for whether or not you have friends. We have made community into friendship. But community is more than just friendship. It is about doing life together.
When I was in 7th grade, my friend’s dad died in a horrible, tragic accident. My hometown was really small, so everyone knew who her dad was. It was interesting to be at their house for the weeks after. People kept dropping off casseroles. People who my friend didn’t even know dropped off food for more than a month. That is community.
That is what we want to be at Thrive. We definitely do not have it all figured out yet, but we are working on it. A community that loves each other and does life together. Even if it is sometimes messy and awkward. We want to extend that community to people outside of the Advent community. And I am going out on a limb here and saying that personally, I am hoping that Thrive can be a place where people who are struggling to find a place like I am can find that community that is so hard to find when you leave an old life for something new.
They committed themselves to the teaching of the apostles, the life together, the common meal, and the prayers. Everyone around was in awe—all those wonders and signs done through the apostles! And all the believers lived in a wonderful harmony, holding everything in common. They sold whatever they owned and pooled their resources so that each person’s need was met.They followed a daily discipline of worship in the Temple followed by meals at home, every meal a celebration, exuberant and joyful, as they praised God. People in general liked what they saw. Every day their number grew as God added those who were saved. ~Acts 2:42-47